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“The expanded horizons offered by online dating don’t equal unrestricted access to a ready and waiting list of beautiful people.Every man and woman online still has criteria that must be met by people who want to date him or her, and every guy and girl is still in direct competition with every other person of their gender…They'll reference information on my profile, ask me thoughtful questions about my life, and maybe even compliment me in a sweet, non-creepy way.But even though I appreciate this, sometimes I'm just not into the guy or I can tell right off the bat we aren't compatible.However, I feel rude when they clearly put some thought and effort into emailing me to just blow them off--especially when I can see that they've visited my profile again since sending the message.
As a woman, your takeaway is that while you may get frustrated at the lack of quality responses, put yourself in a man’s shoes. Here's what I debate about: Whether or not to respond to guys I'm just not that into.In fact, sometimes they'll send me the same message twice because they've already forgotten they sent it to me in the first place. It's the guys who send me real messages that give me pause.Especially when it comes to men trying to write to women.For all the talk about “The End of Men” and how gender roles have been obliterated and women can write to men first, blahblahblah, here’s what ACTUALLY happened after four months: • The women as a group received over 20 times more messages than the men.